That's a shame, because it prolly means you won't like Tactics Ogre. Great game, with a great moral dilemma. You know the kind where you massacre a village of innocent people to further your political agendas?
Grandia 2, Skies of Arcadia, FFX = The most 'recent' RPG's i've been playing. All are great. Nay, all be gold. Albeit the latter's somewhat dreary story and characters. But hey, highly reccommended.
Xenogears - I can't stress this enough. Just play it. Great story. Great characters. Inconsistent presentation. A flawed masterpiece. Any RPG dealing with Schizophrenia, God, and a 10,000 year history gets my vote.
Suikoden 1 & 2: Though the latter is a step upward in story telling and game design, the former wins by sheer nostaligia. I love that goddamn smell.
And don't be fooled by Suikoden 3 - it's not Suikoden. Just another tiresome RPG.
All the greats have been pretty much mentioned, however Golden Sun is overrated. Sure it's 'fun.' But it doesn't deserve the credit it gets, what with a mediocre battle sytem, dire characterisation and a story that doesn't end. Ahhh...I love sequels...