The Twins Paradox is only a paradox if you assume that the earth brother and astronaut sister both see the travel as the same distance, but it isn't.
Since the sister is traveling at 0.6*c, space is compressed, and alpha centuri, 4-light-years away, appears to only be 3.2-light-years-away frm the sister's point of view. But it is still 4 light-years away from the brother's point of view. This is how the sister ages less.
The twins paradox assumes 3 points: a brother and a destination fixed at 4 light years away, and a sister that moves between them. However, here's how I think I create the contradiction, by adding a 3rd point to make the problem symmetrical.
Pretend instead there are two trains that a 4 light-years long, parallel to each other, facing in opposite directions. The sister train's engine starts next to brother train's engine:
CSSSE (sister train)
EBBBC (brother train)
Now, in the traditional twins paradox, Sister's engine (E) begins at brother's engine (E), and moves towards brother's caboose (C) 4 light years away. And then comes back.
From the solution to the twins paradox, sister's engine (E) ages 128 months, while brother's engine (E) ages 160 months. But now I've thrown in sister's caboose (C), which makes this symmetrical.
And this brings out the acceleration question. If sister's train was the one accelerating and deaccelerating, then the sister's train is not always in an inertial frame, while the brother's train always is, and the scenario is not symmetrical, and this is how the normal equation is played out. But how do you know which train is accelerating? Is acceleration symmetrical?
Since acceleration is caused by a force, and forces act in equal and opposite directions, shouldn't it be symmetrical?