Gallstaff:
First of all, why the hell are you so surprised about her being a virgin at 18? It today's fucked up society, sadly, it IS a rarity for someone to still be a virgin when they're 18. And yes, I am a virgin, will be until at least after I graduate from high school (Junior now), and proud of it too.
Second of all, when you said the reason why you were working out was for sex... I'm hoping that was just a joke. If not, you truly have to be the most pathetic person I "know". I can understand as to why you'd wanna stay in shape, but I think your going a bit overboard here. Sure, I may hate your guts with a passion, but listen to me for a second. Think about what you're doing!
Just because some chick said she'd do something sexual with you, you're all like "Oh no! She's not gonna like the way I look! Must get in shape!" If I were gonna have a sexual experience with a girl, and then she decided not too, just because of the way I look, I'd probably slap her (Don't mean any offense to the females of the board). Don't kill yourself over something some girl "said" (that's the keyword) she'd do. She's just messing with ya. To strain yourself for a lost cause. If you absolutely MUST be in shape, start slow, THEN work your way up. Start with say... 25 pushups and crunches a day or something, then work your further. I'm not saying you can't do 100 already with no problems, if you can that's great! Start from the 100 mark, and continue from there. JUST DON'T OVERDO IT!
About Prom.. what does Prom have to do with anything? Sure, MANY people make love on prom night, but they're just being stupid as hell. 99.9% of 'em are probably drunk out of they're minds (which is ALSO stupid as hell) anyway, and that's probably the main thing that leads toward it. Teens these days.. if you don't go get wasted, smoke Pot, and get drunk every night, you're not "cool". Oh, but THAT is? Give me a fucking break! This one girl I sit next to in Japanese class is all like "Dylan! How can you say it's not cool if you've never tried it? The feeling is just awesome!"
My Response: "Yeah well... I tend to avoid people like that. I just let them live out they're own pathetic lives,"
Betsy: "You think I live a pathetic life because I like to get myself drunk and smoke marijuana?"
Me: *Shrug* Mentally thinking... Yeah....
Heh.. today Betsy said something about it to someone, and hse says to me "Which YOU'RE against!" So, it's now a crime not to put myself through hell like that? Whatever....