which is why it's better to snipe. you see what the current price is in the last few seconds, you bid your absolute max. if their max is higher, they wanted it more, let them have it. there's no reason to get pissed about it since you didn't sit there fiending for it all week.
i've run about 2,000 auctions on eBay since '97 and i can honestly say that if it doesn't have a BIN on it and someone else wants it, you're not going to get a deal on it. everyone has this misconception that they should be able to get things cheaply on eBay and you can't. the real deals are hard to come by as i've seen games that i put up for a buck, go well over what i paid for them new. does it make sense? no, but it's supply and demand.