My immediate family(mother, sisters) get together and go to my aunts house on christmas eve. On christmas day, the whole family gets together. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc....We come from all over the country. Some even from Canada. It's a big thing. Then some of us go to my uncle's house for dinner. This year, my immediate family and I will get together early to head to my aunts. I need to then go to my girlfriend's aunt's to spend time with her family. And I have to squeeze them in christmas day, also. It's going to be wierd, she just had a miscarriage, and everyone in her family knows about it already. And they're probably going to want to talk about it. God, like it's not bad enough, and they'll want me to talk about it with all of them like it a normal topic, like a new car or something? God, I hate families where everyone knows everything, and want to talk everything out. I'm dreading it. God, i'm pissed and depressed. Oh well, life goes on. Maybe the next child will work out. It would've been a nice christmas gift to us though.